Several Alumni Gatherings; The 10/3/25 Luncheon is a Month Away; A Former Principal's Update; the Three Sparks Sisters; The Latest from Asoka; and the Same Old Same Old

The Wheatley School Alumni Association Newsletter # 226

Several Alumni Gatherings; The 10/3/25 Luncheon is a Month Away; A Former Principal's Update; the Three Sparks Sisters; The Latest from Asoka; and the Same Old Same Old

 
 
 
 

Welcome to The Wheatley School Alumni Association Newsletter # 226,

THE CLASS OF 1960 REUNION

Ken Martin (1960) Writes - “HI ART, THE CLASS OF 1960 WILL ONCE AGAIN MEET FOR OUR ANNUAL ‘MINI’ REUNION. WE HAVE HAD 14 OF THESE MINIS (COVID KNOCKED OUT ONE YEAR).

THIS YEAR, WE WILL HOLD THE MINI AT DANFORDS HOTEL AND MARINA IN PORT JEFFERSON, NY, ON THE 17TH AND 18TH OF OCTOBER. THE EVENT INCLUDES A MEET AND GREET PARTY AT THE HOTEL ON FRIDAY NIGHT, JOHN MONCURE’S FAMOUS BLOODIES ON SATURDAY MORNING, PILING ON A BUS AFTERWARDS AND HEADING WEST TO THE EAST WILLISTON SCHOOL DISTRICT, AND THEN TOURING THE NEIGHBORHOOD AND STOPPING IN FRONT OF HOUSES OF THE CLASSMATES WHO ARE ON THE BUS. THE CLASSMATE WHOSE HOUSE IT IS WILL THEN DISCUSS MEMORIES OF HIS OR HER HOME BACK IN THE DAZE. ONCE THE HOUSE TOUR IS COMPLETED, WE WILL HAVE LUNCH AT HILDERBRANDT’S. THAT NIGHT, AFTER HEADING BACK EAST, WE PLAN TO DINE SOMEWHERE IN THE QUAINT VILLAGE OF PORT JEFFERSON. SUNDAY MORNING WILL BE BREAKFAST AND FAREWELLS.

IF INTERESTED, EMAIL KEN MARTIN AT KEN@LODGINGKIT.COM. VQ”

The Class of 1965 60th-Year Reunion

The reunion will be held the weekend of October 4/5th, 2025 at the Wyndham Viana Hotel & Spa in Westbury, New York (Link). We’re planning a full day of activities on Saturday, Wheatley’s Homecoming, beginning with a catered lunch at Wheatley, catching up with old friends, a tour of the school, and culminating with a buffet dinner with open seating at the Viana. There will be a cash bar at the Viana. We’re looking at $30 per person for the lunch and $100 per person for the buffet. Hotel expenses are going to be $345 per night per room, all in (including hotel taxes and fees), provided you make reservations by September 9th. Thereafter, the hotel’s standard rates will apply. Breakfasts at the Viana will be free. You’ll need to make you own transportation arrangements. If you wish, you may stay at a nearby hotel without affecting the charge for dinner at the Viana. Lunch and the buffet are prepaid. You may prepay using Zelle to againatexan@yahoo.com, or pay by check to Malcolm McNeill at 6505 Minola Street, Unit A, Houston, TX 77007. Currently, about 40 classmates have signed up. For now, please let us know if you are coming and the number of people in your party, by emailing us at:

WheatleyClassof1965@gmail.com

Gathering in Palm Springs, CA for Class of 1972 and Other Wheatley Graduates Who Want to Join Us (All Classes Are Welcome)

Richard “Rich” Weissman (1972) Writes - A few years ago, I invited The Wheatley School Class of 1972, along with those from other classes, to come to Palm Springs, California, for a weekend party at my home there, hosted by my husband, J.D. Horn, and me. Planning was complete, and many people were going to attend ... but, Covid got in the way. Let’s try it again.

This is not an official reunion; rather, it is a gathering for Wheatley graduates. It's our treat, and everyone attending is our guest, including spouses/partners/companions. Of course, everyone needs to provide their own air travel and accommodations. There’s a Hilton minutes from the house (Hilton Vacation Club Palm Canyon, Palm Springs), and many other accommodations at various price points in the city. Getting around Palm Springs with Lyft/Uber is easy. It’s a small city, and the airport is literally downtown (and our house is only eight minutes from downtown).

We’re in the Andreas Hills neighborhood (south of downtown). Our house was designed for large entertaining and can handle sizable events both indoors as well as outdoors by the pool. We often host functions ranging from 50 to 300+ people (400 was the largest we ever had). We have a caterer we use (with chef/staff/bartending), and musicians/entertainers who often work our events. My husband and I would pay for all event costs (there would be no cost for those attending).

The idea is to start at 5:00 pm on Saturday evening with a buffet dinner with champagne and wine, live music and entertainment. On Sunday at 11:00 am, we would have a poolside party with a buffet lunch going through the late afternoon. Attire would be casual for both days. We're thinking early March, 2026, (a good time of year for people to visit Palm Springs). If 20 people come, that's great, if 200 people come, that's even greater. People from other classes are encouraged to join us. Feel free to spread the word to other Wildcats. If it’s a go, I’ll send out an e-invitation with an RSVP link.

Please let me know your thoughts by emailing rweissman@hotmail.com so that I can get a feel if there is sufficient interest and if there’s anything specific people want.

With love,

Rich Weissman

Class of 1972 (but graduated in 1971 and not in the 1972 yearbook)

Attended North Side grades 1-6, and then Junior and Senior High at Wheatley

Residences: Palm Springs, San Francisco, Black Butte Ranch (Central Oregon)

Email: rweissman@hotmail.com

Cell: 503.250.4545

Website: www.richweissman.com

Class of 1975 - Wheatley-aoke!

On Saturday, October 11, 2025, from 3:00 to 5:00 PM, The Wildcats Reunion Band will be playing LIVE in the Wheatley School cafeteria, featuring the first ever Wheatley-aoke! This free, fun event is open to all Wheatley alumni, family and friends. The Class of 1975 is providing light appetizers and refreshments. Come join us for an afternoon of some of your favorite songs from the past; listen, socialize, sing along, and/or put your dancin' shoes on! Enter the cafeteria from the bus circle side of the building.

Class of 2005 20th-year Reunion

The members of The Wheatley School Class of 2005 are having their 20th-Year Reunion on Saturday, October 4th, 2025, at 7:00 PM, at Brooklyn Music Kitchen, 177 Vanderbilt Avenue, Brooklyn, NY 11205. All Class of 2005 alumni and teachers are welcome to attend. Admission with food and drinks - $50 pp. Prior to the event, Venmo Adam Greenberg @greenie430. Questions? Contact Melissa Katz Melissaivyk@gmail.com

The Wheatley School Alumni Association 2025 New York City Luncheon - Friday, 10/3/2025 - 12:30-3:30 PM - Rosie O’Grady’s - 148 West 51st Street - ALL CLASSES WELCOME!!!

SALAD

Mozzarella Tomato & Basil (beat out the Caesar 11 to 6)

PASTA

Farfalle with Mushrooms & Spinach (v) (beat out the penne and the pesto)

MAIN DISHES

Chicken Marsala (by a mile)

Filet of Salmon Dijonnaise (by a mile)

Eggplant Rollatini with Ricotta (by a mile)

SIDE DISHES

Roasted Potatoes & Seasonal Vegetables

Fresh Baked Rolls

DESSERT

Assorted Cakes, Pies, Tarts & Fresh Fruit

BEVERAGES

Coffee and tea

Wine, beer, and soft drinks

Suggested Price - $125 pp. Wildcat Angel Price - $150. If you can’t pay that, pay less, or pay nothing. To date, 23 people have paid, several over $125, including two people who paid $200 and four people who paid $300, all six of them just for themselves! Pay via Zelle to ARTENGORON@GMAIL.COM or mail check made out to Arthur Engoron to 117 Plandome Road, Manhasset, New York 11030.

Administration

Rick Simon (Wheatley Principal from 1995 to 2008) - “I’m happy to share that I’m starting a new position as 7th grade American History teacher at Buckley Country Day School in Roslyn!”

Graduates

1967 - Helen/Lynn Sparks/Scher (needs to be found) with husband and son

1968 - Asoka Bandarage - Sri Lanka - Beautiful Besieged Island

1969 - Hazel Sparks - Needs to be found.

1975 - Florence “Flo” Sparks - Deceased in 2017

Florence Sparks Obituary

Fan Mail

1967 (Barbara Smith Stanisic) - “Great job, Art! I loved the photos!”

1968 (Nancy Lagin) (Writing from Maine) - “As usual, the Newsletter is so interesting and a real treat to reminisce about dear friends, funny details, stories, and happy days - thank you Art !

1975 (Susan Rudley Sheehan) - “Thank you, Art, for your hard work and dedication to keeping Wheatley alumni connected. I look forward to reading each Newsletter and following the stories shared within the group."

1991 (David Sakhai) - “I’m in awe of your tireless commitment to Wheatley. The stories and history teach us so much about what makes Wheatley not just a school, but a tradition.”

The Official Notices

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The Usual Words of Wisdom

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Closing

That’s it for The Wheatley School Alumni Association Newsletter # 226. Please send me your autobiography before someone else sends me your obituary.

Art

Arthur Fredericks Engoron, Class of 1967

  Arthur Fredericks Engoron, Class of 1967

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