The Wheatley School Alumni Association Newsletter # 223

The October Luncheon; the October Reunion; the Performance; the Ageless Wildcat; the Musician; the Motorcycle Man; the Horticulturist; The Endless Friendship

 

Welcome to The Wheatley School Alumni Association Newsletter # 223,

The Wheatley School Alumni Association 2025 New York City Luncheon - Friday, 10/3/2025 - 12:30-3:30 PM - Rosie O’Grady’s - 148 West 51st Street (between 6th & 7th Aves.) - $125 pp - ALL CLASSES WELCOME!!!

YOU CAN USE ZELLE TO PAY VIA ARTENGORON@GMAIL.COM - Several people have already done so.

Art Engoron (1967) Writes - Rosie O’Grady’s is located a short walk from stops of the following subway trains 1, B, C, D, E, F, M, N, R, and W.

Our room is private; spacious; and has its own little bar. Wheelchair accessible. The food is mostly Italian and quite appealing. Beer, wine, and soft drinks are included, as are taxes and a 20% gratuity There is no administrative or credit card fee.

This place is the gold standard. The event will be classy without being formal (“business casual”). Mail checks made out to Arthur Engoron to 117 Plandome Road, Manhasset, New York 11030 or send $ via Zelle to ARTENGORON@GMAIL.COM.

Wheatley Class of 1975 Reunion Weekend - October 10-12, 2025

As part of the Wheatley School Class of 1975's 50th-Year Reunion Weekend, October 10-12, 2025, several classmates have been working together on forming the Wildcats Reunion Band. The band consists of Mark Lubin on guitar, Susan Rotholz on flute and vocals, Michael Sadowsky on drums and vocals, Toni (Buckner) LaPietra on keyboard and vocals, and Joe Spallina on bass guitar and vocals. If Joe doesn't sound familiar, that's because, sadly, he did not attend Wheatley, but he is graciously volunteering his talents.

“We have been having a great time selecting and practicing songs from our High School years (and beyond) for the performance on Saturday, October 11, 2025, at 2:00pm, in the Wheatley cafeteria. But wait! This is not just a performance. We need you to join us in, hold on to your hats---Wheatley-aoke! No, no, not karaoke per se, but where any of you can join us 'on stage' with songs of your choice, on instruments of your choice. This means, we need you! If you play an instrument and/or sing, tell us your favorite song, and we will be ready for you to join us. If you wail on harmonica, or play a mean sax, we want you! We only ask that you send us your requests by August 15, so that we have time to back you up in style.

The Wheatley-aoke/Wildcats Reunion Band performance is open to all Wheatley Class of 1975 members, alumni and friends. You don't have to have signed up for the Sunday dinner to attend, but we really hope to see you there, too!

Contact Toni (Buckner) LaPietra: musicboxstudios@verizon.net and tell us what song/instrument etc. you'd like to sing/play.

If you haven’t signed up for the reunion yet, you can get all information by contacting us at Wheatleyclassof1975@gmail.com.”

Wheatley Wildcat Will Perform in "Oceans of Music," Even Though "Cats" Supposedly Dislike Water

On Sat., Aug. 23, at 7:00 PM, Takemi Ueno (Class of 1983) will perform with the Litha Symphony Orchestra at the Church of St. Paul & St. Andrew, 263 W. 86th Street, at West End Ave. The program consists of Debussy's "La Mer," the 4 Sea Interludes from Britten's "Peter Grimes," selections from Rodgers' "Victory at Sea," Whitacre's "Water Night," and Pilsner's "A Light in the Ocean." Tickets are $25 in advance (at https://www.lithasymphony.org/2025oceansofmusic.html) and $30 at the door. Unfortunately, the church is not air conditioned.

Graduates

1967 - Merrill Stanton - Ageless

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1968 - Ricki Spier Cohn - “Hi Art, David Barry's book “The Memoirs of a Professional Wiseass and Class Clown” is not the sort of book that I usually read, but I was curious because he is 77 and, thus, only a couple of years older than I, and I often reflect on the era in which we grew up. I also knew, from reading a humor column many years ago, that he attended Haverford College, and his roommate was Robert “Bobby” Stern (1965), who grew up 2 houses from me on Horseshoe Lane. I was also curious as to whether there was a mention of Bobby in this humorous autobiography, and it would make for good bed-time reading.

I learned that Dave Barry and Bobby played together in a band that Barry describes as "never anything special, though some of my bandmates were genuinely talented, particularly bassist Bob Stern and keyboardist Ken Stover, who both went on to play professionally." In a footnote I learned that "Bob was a classically trained violinist when he got to Haverford. When [the band] needed somebody to play bass, he learned how in roughly 10 minutes, and he got to be really good. In later years, he returned to the violin and became a superb jazz violinist; he now plays regularly in venues like Birdland with the Gil Gutierrez Trio."

1970 - Greg Fitzpatrick - Motorcycle Man

Photos of Greg in Canada

Greg Writes - “Art, I am about to embark on a three-month motorcycle tour of Europe. It’s taken a week to ride from Carbondale, Colorado to Calgary, Alberta, Canada. I’m shipping my motorcycle to Paris, and from there I head north to Sweden and Norway. My goal is to get above the arctic 🥶 circle. I rode my motorcycle 🏍️ to Alaska from Carbondale overland in my fifties, and I thought it would be fun to repeat this endeavor on the other side of the planet. From Scandinavia, I plan to head south to the Alps, Pyrenees, Spain, Portugal, and then return to Paris. At this point in my journey, I’ll make tracks for home in Colorado. Cheers, Greg”

1978 - Jonathan Kehoe - Remembered - From 4/2/20 Newsday

“The Medford man killed Wednesday morning after he fell from the back of a Lindenhurst garbage truck was the village's longtime horticulturist, who had volunteered to assist sanitation during the coronavirus pandemic, officials said. Jonathan Kehoe, 59, of Medford, a village employee for 35 years, had offered to work with sanitation crews, which have had rotating and revolving schedules because of the pandemic, according to Lindenhurst Village attorney Gerard Glass. ‘John was assigned to drive,’ Glass said. ‘He switched with one of his younger co-workers during the route to do his fair share. We are all devastated.’ Kehoe was trained to work on the truck and had helped crews over the years, officials said.

Kehoe was taken to Good Samaritan Hospital Medical Center in West Islip, where he was pronounced dead. ‘The Village of Lindenhurst sadly mourns the loss of long-time respected horticulturist John Kehoe,’ according to a statement from Lindenhurst Mayor Michael Lavorata, Highway Superintendent Rick Sorrentino, and the village Board. ‘John dedicated himself for 35 years to beautifying and improving the village. His soft-spoken style, knowledge and willing-ness to serve and help others will be sorely missed by all.’

1980 - Barbara “Bobbie” Hoffman Rothman and Robin Starr - Friends Forever

Bobbie Writes - “Hi Art, Robin Starr (1980) and I met in preschool at Temple Sinai. We were four years old, and as our moms told us, we were inseparable from that first day. Robin graduated Wheatley early and moved to Florida, but we never lost touch. There were some years during college and after that we didn’t see each other, but for the last 25+ years, we have visited each other at least once a year. Robin went to the University of Miami and has continued to live in Florida. She is married and lives in Boca Raton, where she has been working for LexisNexis Risk & Analytics for 24 years. I went to George Washington University, stayed for graduate work, worked in the ER at GWU, met my husband, and we moved to St Louis for a year. In 1993 we moved to Philadelphia, and after a few years we made our home in the Philadelphia suburbs, where we raised our two children. I worked at Einstein Hospital as the Administrative Director for Emergency Medicine for 15 years.

Robin and I are each others oldest friends… almost like siblings. So, sixty years later, here we are.”

L-R - Bobbie Hoffman and Robin Starr, approximately 1976

Bobbie, her siblings, and Robin

L-R - Andrew “Chip” Hoffman (1983); Julie Hoffman (1979); Bobbie; Robin

L-R - Bobbie and Robin

L-R - Robin and Bobbie

Fan Mail

1968 (Ricki Spier Cohn) - “I love receiving the Wheatley Alumni Newsletter.”

1970 (Greg Fitzpatrick) - “Thanks for all you do to keep the Wildcats informed.”

1988 (Maya Sabot Paveza) - “I adore the Wheatley Alumni Newsletter. It is a remarkable feat that I am appreciate.”

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Closing

That’s it for The Wheatley School Alumni Association Newsletter # 223. Please send me your autobiography before someone else sends me your obituary.

  Arthur Fredericks Engoron, Class of 1967

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