Later we went on
to beat the Suffolk County champions to take the title of Long Island
Champions in field hockey. 🏑
I’ll also never forget Coach Roux giving us sterling silver field hockey pins
after winning the Long Island championship. It was such a beautiful
honor.
I will never forget Lori
Roux. She was the best coach and person. I am truly a better person for
having known her. I was so sad to read of her passing, noted by Wendy
McClure (1979). My deepest condolences go out to her
family. May Loretta “Lori” Wilson Roux rest in peace. 🙏🏻
Wheatley no longer has a field hockey team. It was removed not too long after
winning the Long Island Championship. What a shame!
This is me now,
and yes, I still have my jacket and trophies 😁🏆
Sincerely, Tami
H Smith, Class of 1978
The NYT had
a piece on Katharine Hepburn last Sunday, May 19, 2024, that had a
photograph of and quoted Meryl Brodsky.
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/05/15/style/katharine-hepburn-birthday-party.html
"Meryl Brodsky, an
economics policy analyst, recalled Hepburn’s sometimes salty relationship
with her neighbor Stephen Sondheim, who died in 2021, and lived in an
adjacent townhouse that recently sold for $7 million.
‘There’s a story about
how Sondheim would grouse about her threatening to call the police on him
because he liked composing on his piano in the wee hours of the night,’ Ms.
Brodsky said. ‘She hated it.’
Then Ms. Brodsky turned
to [a neighbor, Anne] to ask about her favorite Hepburn movie.
‘The African Queen’ is
mine,’ [Brodsky] said. ‘What’s your favorite, Anne?’
‘Maybe “Adam’s Rib,”’
[Anne] replied.
‘“Adam’s Rib” is so
great.’
‘Remember when we screened it out here?’ [Anne] said.
‘Everyone was here. That got a big turnout.’”
Writes Steve Nelson
(1958) - “To end any confusion over the lyrics to the Wheatley Alma Mater,
here they are as printed in the program for the first commencement, in 1958.
“May loyal hearts in
memory
Forever praise thy name,
Our ALMA MATER noble and
true,
For endless years the
same.
So Veritatem Quaerite,
May e’er our motto be,
Our ALMA MATER Wheatley
High,
Hail to thee.”
I don’t understand why it
didn’t say “School” instead of “High,” since that wouldn’t affect the rhyme
scheme or the meter. Maybe after all these years it ought to be amended,
assuming anyone sings it anymore. Steve Nelson, 1958”
Writes Art Engoron (1967) - The attribution, published in Newsletter # 150, of Alma
Mater to “Godfrey Wills, 1959,” sent by whom-I-cannot-remember, was obviously
incorrect, as were the lyrics published therewith.
Writes Beth Davidson (1959) - “The last line of our Alma Mater definitely referred to
Wheatley High. I can hear this song in my head right now.”
Writes Jill Simon Forte - “I may be old, but that last line stays in my memory!”
Writes Hilary “Lori” Wallach
Marshak (1968) - “Art, Of course
you are right - and I have an uncanny memory for every jingle, song, and
camp color war song I ever heard.
I also want to suggest a
challenge - when I can't sleep, I recite (to myself) every house on
Schoolhouse Lane - including kids' names, parents, and sometimes pets. It
does put me to sleep.”
Writes Bob Holley (1958) - “All this geography/realty stuff is a bit
confusing, especially because these East Williston houses apparently go all
the way back to the 1880s.
In the case of #19 East
Williston Avenue, there are two structures- the house nearest the
street and what I am now assuming is Bick's Barn (indicated by the red arrow)
in the rear.
For discussion,
I have referred to the homes I remember as #1 to #6 --
moving
left-to-right from west
to east.
(1) #3 East
Williston Avenue -- originally owned by Jotham Post -
burned down in 1950; replaced by a park.
(2) #11 East
Williston Avenue-- originally owned by Fred H. Post --
razed and replaced by apartments on the west side of Bengeyfield Dr.
(3) #15 East
Williston Avenue-- originally owned by John & Mary Willis;
this home is the oldest of the properties that are still
standing!
(4) #25 or #19 East
Williston Avenue-- originally owned by Foster L. Oakley;
this is the home (#19) Paul Keister says he occupied; I have no idea
why
the history book said that the home was once at #25 Main Street.
It is
presently standing at #19 East Williston Avenue.
(5) #29 East
Williston Avenue-- originally owned by Ben F. Pine;
rented to veterinarian Charles Martin -- late 1920s -- into the 1930s
It is presently standing at
#29 East Williston Avenue.
(6) #35 East
Williston Avenue-- originally owned by the Ben F. Pine estate;
razed in the 1950s? and now a vacant lot abounding both East Williston Avenue
and High Street
So west to east, only
three of the central houses survived. The first, #1, burned down and
eventually became part of a park. The second, #2, is now site of
an apartment house on the west side of Bengeyfield Drive, a street
later (1960s?) inserted northbound from East Williston Avenue.
Homes #3, #4, and #5 still appear as described above, and #6 was leveled
prior to 1960.
Still confused?
Take some time and play with Google Streets and Google
Maps ; I am shocked at
how much you can see; it's a bit eerie! I just looked at my East Williston
home at 10 Ridge Road (kinda wish I hadn't).
I think Bick’s Barn is still
there in the far west, back side of the large deep
lot at #19 East Williston Avenue. I hope that we’ll hear some
confirmation of this analysis from the one who must know best – Paul
Keister. If he can fill us in on the history of the home, that
would also be of great interest. The old owner, Foster L.
Oakley (1862-1930) was a rather well known proprietor of a local
business specializing in agricultural supplies and farm vehicles – one
of which was the notable state-of-the-art (1891) “East Williston Road
Cart,” built by his business partner, Henry M. Willis. Best & VQ, Bob
Holley”
Writes James Seaton (1973) - “Hey Art, Your note about the East Williston train
crossing reminded me of two ‘spooky’ experiences I’ve had over the years. The
first was at the East Williston train station. As I was riding my bike and
approached the train crossing, I thought to myself, ‘I’ve never seen these
gates coming down before. Wouldn’t it be amazing if a train came along
right now?’ At precisely that moment, the bells started ringing, lights
started flashing, and the gates descended. But then…..there was NO
TRAIN! After a minute or so, the process reversed: lights and bells and
the gates went back up…but never a train at all.
Another incident similarly spooky that had nothing to do with Wheatley: in my
junior year at Yale, I lived in a communal home right on Long Island Sound in
Madison, CT. To make some money, I took on a job as a substitute
postman. I was on my way to the Post Office at 4:30 am to begin sorting
the mail for my rural route. It was dark out, and the street was
deserted. I was driving past a large estate on a corner that was
surrounded by a high masonry wall that came right to the property line.
Because of the wall, I couldn’t see anything around the corner.
When I was approximately 10 ft. from the intersection, I heard a voice
commanding me to ‘Stop the car!’ I stopped the car, and the instant I
did, a young boy riding a bicycle came out of nowhere and
crossed directly in front of me. If it hadn’t been for that voice
getting me to come to a full stop, I for sure would have killed him.
Like I say….spooky.
Best, Jim
Writes Edward B. (“Woodie”) Ryder
(1973) - “As a former member of
the East Williston Fire Department, as was my Dad, I’m sure the response to
the inferno at # 3 East Williston Avenue was fought with mutual aid from
other volunteer fire departments; regardless of the proximity of headquarters
to the fire scene.”
Writes Mark Harvey (1975) - “Hey Art, I just finished reading Newsletter # 153,
and the ‘Hood History stories about East Williston Avenue, given in such
detail, fascinated me. I have memories of visiting the East Williston
Greenhouse, where a distant relative of mine, Fritz Weidel, worked. I don’t
have a lot of information about him and his relationship to the village. Does
anyone remember him?
In addition, the burning
of the Jotham Post Mansion reminded me of another fire. I grew up on Arbor
Lane in the Country Club and vaguely remember a huge fire at the Valentine
Mansion. This was across from Barnyard Lane on the west side of Roslyn Road
in the section know as ‘Rosewood.’ This had to be in the mid 60’s.
Would love to know more about this and the Valentine family.
I also want to give a
shout out to an old neighbor from Arbor Lane, Andy Wilkins (1969). I
remember him as a really good guy. Although he was older than me, he always
took the time to talk while he was out walking his dog. He was always so
kind and helpful when my mom was sick. Not sure I ever thanked him. Andy, I
hope you are well...
Regards, Mark Harvey,
Class of 1975, mcharvey@optonline.net”
1964 - Susan Obrant
1965 - Jeffrey Orling - “Thanks Art...makes me nostalgic and realize how much I
have forgotten.... and what a great place to grow up it was. It makes me feel
guilty that I lost track of old friends. Best, Jeff
1968 - Sheli Nan Hershcopf - "“Dear Wheatley friends, Thank you for attending the
premiere of my piece for string orchestra, BACKLASH! It was a marvelous
concert . Here is a photo of me with the conductor Maestro Max Lipshitz, also
a composer. and famed composer and guitarist Jose Lezcano, who also had
a piece on the program. Looking forward to next time. Sincerely, Sheli Nan
L-R - Famed
composer and guitarist Jose Lezcano, Maestro Max Lipshitz, Sheli Nan
1969 + 1971 - John Poulos (1971)
Remembers Peter Siegelman (1969) -
“Thanks for the memories. The picture of Peter with the surfboard was a rush.
I sold him that board, it was a Greek (literally, made by ‘The Greek’). It
was VERY light weight, very thin cloth, very little resin, not hard to put a
dent in if you didn’t handle it right. Peter bought another board from me, a
Seeker, that was custom made for me in Cocoa Beach back around 1970. WOW……one
picture……LOT’S of memories. I’ve thought about Peter every day for the past
couple of weeks… what a great guy!”
1972 - -- Amy Jean Hershcopf
Levine - With Big Sister Sheli Nan Hershcopf (1968)
L-R - Sheli, Amy
1971+1973+1974 - Michael Weiss
(1971), Peter Simel (1973), Karen Spielman (1974)
L-R - Michael,
Karen, Peter, Bocaire Country Club, Boca Raton, FL, 5/24/2024
1971 - Miles Fidelman - Visionary
Writes Miles - “As I turned 70, I have been gearing up a new venture -
heading off to rebuild suburbia, before it falls apart around us.
https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/mfidelman/civicnet-network-we-must-to-fix-our-future
1971 - John Poulos -
Letter to the Editor of Newsday
It reads as
follows: “How sad. As a graduate of both North Side School in East Williston
and The Wheatley School in Old Westbury, I think that a better alternative to
putting the students in a pen would be to build a large bunker and hold
classes inside of it. That way, we would know for certain exactly where the
are, and only a few armed guards would be required to insure their complete
safety.
As a civilian responder
after the attack on The World Trade Center on 9/11, I understand the concerns
of the students’ parents. But why go half way? A bunker is the obvious
answer. - John Poulos, Freeport”
1966 (Peter Siegel) - “Keep the Newsletters coming, and thanks for all you do
on them.”
1967 (Lee Fein) - “I love the Newsletters.”
1967 (Scott Frishman) - “Art, Always a joy to read. Thanks as always.”
1967 (Laury Monk) - “I love reading the Wheatley Alumni Newsletters.”
1968 (Donna Brescia) - “I appreciate your work on the Wheatley Newsletter.”
1968 (Hilary “Lori” Wallach
Marshak) - “Thanks for doing all
this.”
1975 (Mark Harvey) - “Art & Ken, thanks so much for what you do
for the Wheatley community! I love the Newsletters.”
1978 (Tami Smith) - “I love 🩷 reading the Newsletters.”
1982 (Maria Reyher Meredith) - “Thanks for all that you do to keep us connected,
entertained, and informed.”
1993 (Antoine Delgrange) - ❤️
That’s it for The
Wheatley School Alumni Association Newsletter # 154. Please send me
your autobiography before someone else sends me your obituary.
Art
Arthur Fredericks Engoron, Class of 1967