Arthur Engoron
January 23, 2024
Dear Wheatley Wildcats and Other Interested Persons,
Welcome to The Wheatley School Alumni Association Newsletter #
135.
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Wheatley School, 11 Bacon Road, Old Westbury, NY 11568, and the people who
administered, taught, worked, and/or studied there. Art Engoron, Class of 1967
Writes Scott Frishman (1967) - I much enjoyed what David Heckendorn (faculty)
wrote. ‘Mr. Holland’s Opus’ is one of my and my brother Rick’s (1972) favorite movies of all time. It
always reminds me of teachers like Dr. Wills, Mr Pearson, and Mr. Signorelli. Especially Dr. Wills, even though he was more of
a choir teacher and theatre and musicals professor. I think that that movie
was far and away Richard Dreyfuss’s best performance in a motion picture. To
learn that Mr. Heckendorn was actually involved in the movie is mind-boggling,
to say the least.
Writes John Poulos (1971) - “Hi Art, Very sorry
to hear about the passing of Mr. Runestad; I always enjoyed his classes, he
was such an animated ‘character,’ he made everything interesting. My
condolences to the Runestad family, as well as to the Wathey and Coulthurst
Families.”
Writes Rick Frishman (1972) - “I have been telling friends about Les Runestad for over 50
years. I had him for Biology in 11th grade, and I got to know him pretty
well. Several of our teachers were extras in our shows, ‘Guys and Dolls’ and
‘Fiorello,’ and he was always a great sport. At any rate…..In 11th grade I
said to him, ‘I am doing very well in all of my other classes - but I
can’t seem to get better that a C in biology. Why?’ He said…..’Did it ever
occur to you, Mr. Frishman, that you may just be stupid?’ Best answer a
teacher ever said to me! (Obviously he was just kidding)”
Writes Todd Glickman (1973) - “I was very saddened
to hear of the passing of Les Runestad. In 8th grade
Les first inspired me to enjoy Earth Science in general and meteorology
specifically. And the rest is history. He had the magic
combination that makes a truly superb teacher: personable, funny, and
truly caring about his students’ learning. May his memory be for a
blessing – I think of him often even after more than 50 years.”
Writes Peter Sultan (1989) - “Runstead was the
best. One time before a cross-country race a few of the team members (I
was one of them) snuck off to McDonald’s and had a few burgers. When Les
found out he yelled at us for what seemed like a few hours. I don’t think I
had ever heard so many expletives strung together. It was very memorable.
We all kind of laughed afterwards, and Wheatley did well in the race.
What great memories :)”
Writes David Sakhai (1991) - “So sorry to hear of Les Runestad’s passing—a man who clearly knew how
to live life! I was privileged to have him as a teacher and as a coach.
Whether in science class, where he gave us “quizzes and testes” (as he would
say), or going for runs during practice at the old Air National Guard base or
up the hill at Stone Arches, he always had us in stitches—both from running
and laughing so hard—while infamously sipping on his Irish coffee. LR was
truly remarkable and will be remembered well by us all!!
Writes Jacob Kuriakose (1995) - “The passing of
Leslie Runestad really saddens me, but the memories of him always bring me a
smile. There are too many stories to tell, and some may be best told
face-to-face for a wide variety of reasons. He was my cross-country
coach for three years. To be diplomatic, running is not the funnest
sport in the world. However, LR made running fun.
Also, when I was trying to get into the Navy, I was a bit too
honest about my medical history and admitted that I had asthma as a kid.
This condition was resolved, and I did not need any meds for quite some
time prior to joining. However, any prior medical history is a big
problem, as, for a wide variety of reasons, the Navy does not want to admit
anyone with any prior medical issues. So I had to prove that this
condition was resolved. One thing led to another, and somehow my running cross-country
would have been helpful to prove that my asthma was no longer relevant.
Well, next thing I know, I ask LR if he could help me, and LR sends me
documentation of my times running cross-country to help my application.
It was quite touching that he kept those records and sent them to me to
help me get into the Navy. RIP LR.”
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1963 - Mary Lee Holley Cerillo
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Writes Mary Lee - I decided to take Art up on his challenge to write
something before I croak and people are reading my obituary. First off,
I am truly thankful to Wheatley for my meeting Andy Cerillo, my husband of almost 57
years, when I was a freshman. I am sending a recent photograph of
us standing in a sunflower field at the Biltmore Estate in North Carolina.
Andy attended Wheatley from the 7th grade to his junior year and then went to
Valley Forge Military Academy in Wayne, Pennsylvania.
We have been fortunate in our marriage and have lived in
numerous states. After Andy served his tour in Vietnam in 1968 we
settled in the Philadelphia area for 10 years, outside Boston for 18 years,
Austin, Texas for 2 1/2 years, Northern Virginia for 14 years, and North
Carolina for 11 years. We are loving our home in the mountains, as
it is so beautiful and peaceful. I do nature photography as a
hobby, so there is an abundance of material to photograph. We love
taking day trips all over the state, particularly to fields of wildflowers
during the spring and summer. We take walks around lakes here in
the mountains and enjoy nature in all its glory. It sure
beats watching the news!!!! We have been able to travel throughout
the world during our marriage, so we are indeed lucky!!
I was a secretary for Eastern Airlines Public Relations back
in the day, went back to college late in life, and got my MSW from Boston
College School of Social Work. I worked in private practice as a
psychotherapist specializing in Trauma and Substance Abuse for several
years. Upon retirement I became very active politically,
especially in Virginia.
We have one son who lives nine miles from
us. He currently teaches Math at the middle school in our
very rural county in North Carolina. Scott had worked in India for
Goldman Sachs for three and a half years. He has always wanted to
teach, so he bit the bullet and is enjoying his second career. He
also has a tie to Art Engoron, as
Art kindly officiated at the marriage of Scott and his husband eleven years
ago in Central Park in New York City. It was a wonderful ceremony,
and we so appreciated Art. (And we still do, I might add.)
I am surprised that no one has mentioned being inspired by
either Peggy Meisel or Bernard Seiderman. Both of these
teachers left a lasting impression on me. How lucky were we that
we were able to take a Philosophy course and a History of Russia course in
high school!!! I remember Bernard Seiderman, and how I left him my
cheerleader uniform and megaphone in the senior will. He
always used to tease me that I would get married and have a bunch of kids. I
remember us having the opportunity to visit a Russian monastery in upstate
New York on a school bus that broke down on our way back home. I
am still in touch with some of the people who were in my
class. Peggy Meisel was amazing and made me
THINK. I still recall the wonderful books we were assigned to read
such as The Catcher In the Rye, The Bridge Over San Luis Rey, The Heart is A
Lonely Hunter, etc. Several of these books are now
banned. Her assignments were thought-provoking. Thanks be to God
my mother had been an English major and was helpful in helping me to think
things through.
I continue to be in touch with members of the Class of 1963,
who will always be special, as will The Wheatley School!!!”
1966 - Karen Wattel Arenson - Celebrating her 75th
Writes Karen - “I celebrated my 75th birthday in January:
(1) - with my daughter, Morgan, at the Whitney Museum, where
she is Director of Foundation, Government, & Planned Giving;
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(2) - ready to blow out the candle on my birthday
donuts at Cafe Cluny in the Village, where I had lunch with her; and
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(3) - with my husband, Greg, at dinner at Joomak
Banjum.
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Writes Art Engoron (1967) - Karen and I had a
wonderful lunch at Pepolino, in Tribeca, on January 18, 2024
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1967 - Ginny Bindman Westerfeld and Lorraine Eisner
Fitelson at lunch in West Palm Beach, Florida. “Great friends since
seventh grade!!!”
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L-R - Lorraine and Ginny
1967 - L-R Richard Friedman and Art Engoron - Close Friends
Since Kindergarten
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1970 - Mitch Shapiro - “Art…..First, Happy
2024…here’s to having memories of the past shared with others and new
memories being made as the new year begins.
I’d like to say, simply, that I appreciate the sharing by
Wheatleyites of their journeys through life, from living and growing up in
the district, to staying connected over the years, to the trials &
tribulations, successes, and, of course, the paths taken in life. These
stories have been uplifting on so many levels. It’s also about learning
what our alumni compatriots have done with their lives….I personally
find it amazing. And, oh gosh, not that it would have made much
difference, but I was blown away by the story from David Heckendorn - Music
Teacher at The Wheatley School from 1985 – 2006. Mr. Holland’s Opus is
one of my two top favorite movies of all time…..So congrats, David, on your
overall accomplishments; I also listen to jazz.”
1973 - Gerry Engoron - Exercise Tip
Writes Gerry - “Hi Art: While not alumni news, I felt that this was too
good not to share. If you can walk and have access to a
treadmill with an incline feature, you can get a great aerobic workout!
It's called the 12-3-30 workout and it's already becoming popular.
Keeping in mind that it's completely customizable, it works
like this: Using the 12 percent incline setting, walk on the
treadmill at three miles-per-hour for 30 minutes (thus,
12-3-30). When I first tried it, I was surprised by the steepness of
the 12 percent setting, so I cut it back to six. Since then, I have
slowly built up to 8, 9 and 10 (10 minutes each). I can also walk a
little faster, so I use 3.3 mph.
When I'm finished, I'm always amazed at what a good workout I
had with little-to-no
wear and tear on my knees, joints, etc. Perfect for
many of us aging baby-boomers. Of course the magic is in the
incline setting. Give it a try and you may be amazed, too!”
1975 - Deidra Coulthurst - Writes Victoria Unger Hochman (1970) - “Deepest condolences to Linda Couthurst-Jay (1972) on the loss of her amazing sister, Deidra Coulthurst. RIP.”
1975 - Mark Lubin - Music Man
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Writes Mark - “I'm the guy with the guitar. Unfortunately for the
others, none of them had the good fortune to attend Wheatley.”
Mark co-hosts a
monthly open jazz jam session at the NYC venue Sentry Flatiron. His house
band starts with a set, and then they open it up for people to come up and
play. Wheatley alumni and others are welcome to play or listen.
No cover or minimum. The next sessions will be on January 24 (tomorrow!!!) and
February 28 at 6:30pm. Sentry Flatiron is
located at 37 W. 24th St., 18th floor. More information is
available on Mark's website (marklubinmusic.com) and at Handstamp.com.
1976 - Lisa Kozupsky Pritchard - Doing Good
Writes classmate Jennie Karp Colbert - “This recent photograph
shows Lisa Kozupsky-Pritchard volunteering her nursing skills to repair cleft
palates in Guatemala for Operation Smile. Lisa has been volunteering her
skills with this NGO (non-government organization) for years.
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1991 - Daniel Marc Bassen - Deceased - November 29,
1972 - January 9, 2024
Daniel Marc Bassen, born November 29, 1972, in New York passed
away on January 9, 2024, at the age of 51, in Dunwoody, GA. He is survived by
his twin sons, Ethan and Wyatt, former spouse Robin, and parents Ira and
Sandy Bassen. He is lovingly remembered by his family and friends. Dan
graduated from Emory University with a business degree. He was fun, witty and
thoughtful and a dedicated sales professional, a devoted father, and a dear,
dear friend who leaves behind a legacy of warmth and kindness. Rest in peace,
Danny–may your memory be a blessing.
1964 (Ellen Solow Holzman) - “Art—One aspect of
the Newsletter that I appreciate is seeing posts from the friends of my
younger brothers, not just from my classmates. I bet there are others who
also enjoy seeing posts about their siblings’ classmates.”
1965 (Jeffrey Orling) - “Art, Happy New Year! Thanks again for the lifeline to
our shared distant past. I look forward to your emails. I doubt that
you have any idea how valuable these Newsletters are. We probably didn't
realize what a fabulous school Wheatley was when we were there. Keep ‘em
coming!”
1967 (Scott Frishman) - “Hey Art, Great newsletter, as usual.”
1970 (Mitch Shapiro) - “Art..…you &
Keith deserve all the accolades for keeping us all entwined with the
history that many of us share; you bring it all back to us..…Thank You!”
1972 (Rick Frishman) - “Art - Great newsletter, as usual.”
1975 (Mark Lubin) - “Art, I look forward to receiving the Newsletters, and I enjoy
reading them. Thanks for all your efforts to keep the Wheatley alumni
community connected!”
Writes Rick Frishman (1972) - “Art - Great newsletter as usual.
That’s it for The Wheatley School Alumni Association
Newsletter # 135. Please send me your autobiography before someone else
sends me your obituary.
Art
Arthur Fredericks Engoron, Class of 1967
